How It Works
#1 Answer 50 Questions
Most are multiple choice, so it takes about 15 minutes. What you like, what you don’t, and the things you’ve been meaning to say for years. Answer them alone, with nobody waiting for you to finish the sentence.
#2 Receive Your Book
Within 48 hours you'll receive your book via email: a manual to you, in sections. Setting the mood, kissing and touch, what works, what doesn't, what happens afterward. Written to help a man who wants to get it right.
#3 Read and Edit
It arrives finished, but not final. Cut the line that goes too far. Fix the part that isn't quite you. Add the thing you only thought of after you hit submit.
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#4 Share It or Don’t
Send it to him, or keep it. Some women never show it to anyone, and still find it easier to ask for things once they’ve seen them written down.
A Note from the Founder
I'm the woman Her Open Book is for.
I struggle to tell men what I truly want in bed. Not because I don't know, but because the words don't come.
Nearly every woman I've talked to said the same thing. And the men I've asked said they'd love to know, they just can't read minds.
So there's a gap, and nobody's crossing it. This is my attempt at a bridge.
I tested the whole thing. I gave my book to a man before our first time. First times have always been like a guessing game. Sometimes they guess right. Mostly not.
This was the first one where he got everything right on the first night. He told me he was relieved to know.
It was the best argument for this product I could have asked for.
But I'm one woman with one set of answers, and that's not enough to build on. That's where you come in.
I can't wait to hear about your experience with it.
Papaya
Take a peek at a page from Papaya’s own book...
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Your Privacy
Papaya is the only person who reads your answers. The first draft of your book is written by AI, and she edits and design every book herself.
When your book is ready, she emails it to you. Then she deletes your book and questionnaire answers from her files and her form tool.
Testimonials
Sarah
Beta Tester
"I LOVE IT!!!
I cried reading the book after receiving it, seeing the actual words written down of what I had missed or forgotten the feeling of. I haven’t given him the book and I’m not sure if I ever will. It feels like my little guidebook that’s reconnected me to my voice, being clear on what I want and having the confidence and courage to ask or guide him towards it.
He just got back from a trip, felt like we were back in the passionate place we were in when we first met 12 years ago"
Kimberly
Beta Tester
This is such a brilliant idea!!!
My boyfriend and I talked about our sexual preferences pretty early on in our relationship, but let’s be real, sometimes it’s still tricky to bring certain things up! I loved how the prompts helped me really hone in on the little things I absolutely love, the things I’m not so into, and even some things I hadn’t really thought about before.
Such a fun, creative way to get to know yourself a little better."
Common Questions
What if I’m single?
You'll choose “a future partner” at the start of the questionnaire. Your book will be written for someone who hasn’t met you yet, and will read as an introduction rather than a list of adjustments.
What format does the book come in?
A beautifully formatted PDF, plus a Word version that you can edit.
Who’s talking in the book?
Not you. The book is written like a close friend explaining you to him. Your words are in it. The voice is the book’s.
What if he doesn't receive it well?
The book is written to him, not at him. It never tells him he’s done anything wrong, and it opens by saying so. Most men want this information and have never been given it.
What will it cost after the beta?
Beta testers get their book free. At launch, a book is $59.